I'm failing trying to configure the framebuffer as default graphic adapter and the nvidia geforce RTX 2080 ti as PRIME render offload

For nvidia2nvidia PRIME, you don’t need the modesetting driver, just driver 470+, see
https://forums.developer.nvidia.com/t/ubuntu-20-04-not-able-to-run-6-7-monitor-setup-with-one-x-screen/200904/2?u=generix
though in that case, pci2pci transfers are involved instead of pci2sysmem in the intel case so iommu device isolation (needed for the passthrough on the host) might interfere.