Screen Tearing and Vsync Problems

Hey guys, i have a problem :(
I have the problem of Tearing in a lot of games and whenever i disable vsync. But whenever i enable it and the tearing goes away, the game reacts slower to my mouse and or controller. Its really frustrating and I havent seen anybody who knows how to fix this :( some people have told me it might be better if you have 120 Hz Monitor since i only have a normal 60 Hz Samsung, which is fine in every other aspect though :S
I would love your thoughts on this and thanks in Advance!