Suitable cuda toolkit and cudnn for windows laptop

I have following below specs of my laptop can anyone help me to redirect which cudnn and cuda toolkit will work, I am tired of this installation, i tried with 11 and 12 version but nothing worked as gpu is still not getting detected.
I have uninstalled evrything and going for reinstallation, need guidance for that.

Laptop specs:
os: windows 11
GPU: RTX 3060 (16 GB)

Sorry for this naive question, very new to Data science.

Hi ,
We recommend you to check the supported features from the below link.

You can refer below link for all the supported operators list.
For unsupported operators, you need to create a custom plugin to support the operation