Unable to get Tesla K80 to work with OpenCV CUDNN

Hello, I have been trying for the past week to get a Tesla K80 setup on Ubuntu 20.04 To use with OpenCV DNN.
I am able to get the drivers for the card installed and running: nvidia-smi shows Tesla K80 4 times (I have 2 cards installed). When building OpenCV, I see the Cuda is enabled (YES) however DNN is not. I see the the “backend” is not built, but as soon as I attempt to install the Cuda-Toolkit, the machiene will no longer be able to see the cards nvidia-smi. And the OpenCV Build still says NO for DNN. I am banging my head against the wall trying to figure this one out. Would anyone please give me a hint???

Here is a more complete output:

:~/opencv/build$ cmake -D CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=RELEASE -D CMAKE_INSTALL_PREFIX=/usr/local -D WITH_CUDA=ON -D WITH_CUDNN=ON -D WITH_CUBLAS=ON -D WITH_TBB=ON -D OPENCV_DNN_CUDA=ON -D OPENCV_ENABLE_NONFREE=ON -D CUDA_ARCH_BIN=3.7 -D OPENCV_EXTRA_MODULES_PATH=$HOME/opencv_contrib/modules -D BUILD_EXAMPLES=OFF -D HAVE_opencv_python3=ON ..
-- Detected processor: x86_64
-- Could NOT find PythonInterp (missing: PYTHON_EXECUTABLE) (Required is at least version "2.7")
-- Looking for ccache - not found
-- Found ZLIB: /usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libz.so (found suitable version "1.2.11", minimum required is "1.2.3") 
Cleaning INTERNAL cached variable: WEBP_LIBRARY
Cleaning INTERNAL cached variable: WEBP_INCLUDE_DIR
-- Could NOT find OpenJPEG (minimal suitable version: 2.0, recommended version >= 2.3.1). OpenJPEG will be built from sources
-- OpenJPEG: VERSION = 2.4.0, BUILD = opencv-4.6.0-dev-openjp2-2.4.0
-- OpenJPEG libraries will be built from sources: libopenjp2 (version "2.4.0")
-- Found ZLIB: /usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libz.so (found version "1.2.11") 
-- libva: missing va.h header (VA_INCLUDE_DIR)
-- found Intel IPP (ICV version): 2020.0.0 [2020.0.0 Gold]
-- at: /home/kevin/opencv/build/3rdparty/ippicv/ippicv_lnx/icv
-- found Intel IPP Integration Wrappers sources: 2020.0.0
-- at: /home/kevin/opencv/build/3rdparty/ippicv/ippicv_lnx/iw
-- Could NOT find CUDNN (missing: CUDNN_LIBRARY CUDNN_INCLUDE_DIR) (Required is at least version "7.5")
-- CUDA detected: 11.7
-- CUDA: Using CUDA_ARCH_BIN=3.7
-- CUDA NVCC target flags: -gencode;arch=compute_37,code=sm_37;-D_FORCE_INLINES
-- Could not find OpenBLAS include. Turning OpenBLAS_FOUND off
-- Could not find OpenBLAS lib. Turning OpenBLAS_FOUND off
-- Could NOT find Atlas (missing: Atlas_CBLAS_INCLUDE_DIR Atlas_CLAPACK_INCLUDE_DIR Atlas_CBLAS_LIBRARY Atlas_BLAS_LIBRARY Atlas_LAPACK_LIBRARY) 
-- Could NOT find BLAS (missing: BLAS_LIBRARIES) 
-- Could NOT find LAPACK (missing: LAPACK_LIBRARIES) 
    Reason given by package: LAPACK could not be found because dependency BLAS could not be found.

-- Could NOT find JNI (missing: JAVA_INCLUDE_PATH JAVA_INCLUDE_PATH2 JAVA_AWT_INCLUDE_PATH) 
-- VTK is not found. Please set -DVTK_DIR in CMake to VTK build directory, or to VTK install subdirectory with VTKConfig.cmake file
-- Checking for module 'gtk+-3.0'
--   No package 'gtk+-3.0' found
-- Checking for module 'gtk+-2.0'
--   No package 'gtk+-2.0' found
-- Checking for modules 'libavcodec;libavformat;libavutil;libswscale'
--   No package 'libavcodec' found
--   No package 'libavformat' found
--   No package 'libavutil' found
--   No package 'libswscale' found
-- FFMPEG is disabled. Required libraries: libavcodec;libavformat;libavutil;libswscale. Missing libraries: libavcodec;libavformat;libavutil;libswscale
-- Checking for module 'libdc1394-2'
--   No package 'libdc1394-2' found
-- Module opencv_alphamat disabled because the following dependencies are not found: Eigen
-- Checking for module 'freetype2'
--   No package 'freetype2' found
-- Checking for module 'harfbuzz'
--   No package 'harfbuzz' found
-- freetype2:   NO
-- harfbuzz:    NO
-- Could NOT find HDF5 (missing: HDF5_LIBRARIES HDF5_INCLUDE_DIRS) (found version "")
-- Julia not found. Not compiling Julia Bindings. 
-- Module opencv_ovis disabled because OGRE3D was not found
-- No preference for use of exported gflags CMake configuration set, and no hints for include/library directories provided. Defaulting to preferring an installed/exported gflags CMake configuration if available.
-- Failed to find installed gflags CMake configuration, searching for gflags build directories exported with CMake.
-- Failed to find gflags - Failed to find an installed/exported CMake configuration for gflags, will perform search for installed gflags components.
-- Failed to find gflags - Could not find gflags include directory, set GFLAGS_INCLUDE_DIR to directory containing gflags/gflags.h
-- Failed to find glog - Could not find glog include directory, set GLOG_INCLUDE_DIR to directory containing glog/logging.h
-- Module opencv_sfm disabled because the following dependencies are not found: Eigen Glog/Gflags
-- Checking for module 'tesseract'
--   No package 'tesseract' found
-- Tesseract:   NO
-- Allocator metrics storage type: 'long long'
CMake Error at modules/dnn/CMakeLists.txt:45 (message):
  DNN: CUDA backend requires cuDNN.  Please resolve dependency or disable
  OPENCV_DNN_CUDA=OFF


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-- Found 'misc' Python modules from /home/kevin/opencv/modules/python/package/extra_modules
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-- Found 'misc' Python modules from /home/kevin/opencv/modules/python/package/extra_modules
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Thank you so much!!!
-Kevin