New pc build linux mint 3080 Ti drivers not working properly

hello community :) im a fast learner ill try not to waste your time, and appreciate your help greatly
my build:
x570 unify board
ryzen 5950x DH15 cooler
evga geforce RTX 3080ti
gskill 3600 32gigs
corsair 750 gold
fractal case
5.4.0-96 generic kernel
updated bios with secure features off

so even tho prices are insane i decided to build a pc, all went well with my old graphics card in the new build until i installed this new 3080 ti and now i got driver problems i assume, mints looks great and runs fine on my old 24 inch 1080p monitor but when i hook the new pc up to my 4k tv it looks like shit, first i had stutter and lag so i did fresh install of mint, updated everything and then switched to recommended driver, video playback is fine now, but the desktop and browser look terrible, video icons look almost cartooned, something is clearly wrong but i was unable to fix it by changing drivers, i tried to install the newest nvidia driver from there site but ran into x server issues and did not continue, thank you all for giving me a way to get away from windows, i hope to never use windows again :)

Kernel: 5.4.0-96-generic x86_64 bits: 64 compiler: gcc v: 9.3.0
Desktop: Cinnamon 5.0.7 wm: muffin 5.0.2 dm: LightDM 1.30.0
Distro: Linux Mint 20.2 Uma base: Ubuntu 20.04 focal
Type: Desktop Mobo: Micro-Star model: MEG X570 UNIFY (MS-7C35) v: 2.0
serial: UEFI: American Megatrends LLC. v: A.A0 date: 06/22/2021
Topology: 16-Core model: AMD Ryzen 9 5950X bits: 64 type: MT MCP
arch: Zen 3 L2 cache: 8192 KiB
flags: avx avx2 lm nx pae sse sse2 sse3 sse4_1 sse4_2 sse4a ssse3 svm
bogomips: 217620
Speed: 2197 MHz min/max: 2200/3400 MHz boost: enabled Core speeds (MHz):
1: 2197 2: 2196 3: 2197 4: 2194 5: 2200 6: 2196 7: 2197 8: 2197 9: 2199
10: 2196 11: 2197 12: 2199 13: 2198 14: 2199 15: 2195 16: 2194 17: 2197
18: 2194 19: 2197 20: 2197 21: 2200 22: 2196 23: 2197 24: 2199 25: 2196
26: 2195 27: 2198 28: 2199 29: 2195 30: 2200 31: 2198 32: 2195
Device-1: NVIDIA vendor: driver: nvidia v: 470.86
bus ID: 2d:00.0 chip ID: 10de:2208
Display: x11 server: X Org 1.20.13 driver: nvidia
unloaded: fbdev,modesetting,nouveau,vesa resolution: 1920x1080~60Hz
OpenGL: renderer: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3080 Ti/PCIe/SSE2
v: 4.6.0 NVIDIA 470.86 direct render: Yes
Device-1: NVIDIA vendor: driver: snd_hda_intel v: kernel
bus ID: 2d:00.1 chip ID: 10de:1aef
Device-2: AMD Starship/Matisse HD Audio vendor: Micro-Star MSI
driver: snd_hda_intel v: kernel bus ID: 2f:00.4 chip ID: 1022:1487
Sound Server: ALSA v: k5.4.0-96-generic
Device-1: Realtek RTL8125 2.5GbE vendor: Micro-Star MSI driver: r8169
v: kernel port: f000 bus ID: 27:00.0 chip ID: 10ec:8125
IF: enp39s0 state: up speed: 1000 Mbps duplex: full mac:
Device-2: Intel Wi-Fi 6 AX200 driver: iwlwifi v: kernel port: f000
bus ID: 28:00.0 chip ID: 8086:2723
IF: wlo1 state: down mac:
Local Storage: total: 4.55 TiB used: 2.53 TiB (55.7%)
ID-1: /dev/nvme0n1 vendor: Samsung model: SSD 980 PRO 1TB size: 931.51 GiB
speed: 63.2 Gb/s lanes: 4 serial: rev: 3B2QGXA7 scheme: GPT
ID-2: /dev/sda vendor: Seagate model: ST3000DM008-2DM166 size: 2.73 TiB
speed: 6.0 Gb/s rotation: 7200 rpm serial: rev: CC26 scheme: GPT
ID-3: /dev/sdb vendor: Western Digital model: WD10EZEX-75WN4A0
size: 931.51 GiB speed: 6.0 Gb/s rotation: 7200 rpm serial:
rev: 1A02 scheme: GPT
ID-1: / size: 913.74 GiB used: 47.94 GiB (5.2%) fs: ext4 dev: /dev/dm-1
ID-2: /boot size: 704.5 MiB used: 211.1 MiB (30.0%) fs: ext4
dev: /dev/nvme0n1p2
ID-3: swap-1 size: 976.0 MiB used: 9.2 MiB (0.9%) fs: swap dev: /dev/dm-2
System Temperatures: cpu: 34.0 C mobo: N/A gpu: nvidia temp: 39 C
Fan Speeds (RPM): N/A gpu: nvidia fan: 0%
No active apt repos in: /etc/apt/sources.list
Active apt repos in: / etc /apt /sources list .d/official-package-repositories list
1: deb packages linuxmint com uma main upstream import backport #id:linuxmint_main
2: deb archive ubuntu ubuntu focal main restricted universe multiverse
3: deb archive ubuntu ubuntu focal-updates main restricted universe multiverse
4: deb archive ubuntu ubuntu focal-backports main restricted universe multiverse
5: deb security ubuntu ubuntu/ focal-security main restricted universe multiverse
6: deb http archive canonical ubuntu/ focal partner
Processes: 479 Uptime: 16h 08m Memory: 31.34 GiB used: 4.08 GiB (13.0%)
Init: systemd v: 245 runlevel: 5 Compilers: gcc: 9.3.0 alt: 9 Shell: bash
v: 5.0.17 running in: gnome-terminal inxi: 3.0.38

Please run as root and attach the resulting nvidia-bug-report.log.gz file to your post.

nvidia-bug-report.log.gz (314.8 KB)
ok here it is,but i took this report while hooked to my working 1080p monitor not the 4k Samsung tv i am having problems with, should i retake it with the tv hooked up?

If it’s only appearing on the TV, it might be sending a wrong color profile. Please see this on how to reset it to standard:

i dont think it is only on that screen, but the only other screen i have is this one a small 1080p monitor so i cant tell if text looks thin because of this low quality small monitor or if it has the same problem as big monitor but just looks much better, is there anyway to confirm if my gpu is working properly, i can install games i guess but i have avoided that since i have been trying so many flavors of linux hoping to get this gpu working, should i re run the test hooked to big tv thats clearly not playable, ive always used this tv so its kinda frustrating thanks for the help

According to the logs, at least with the 1080p monitor, everything looks fine.